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Dating Tip
By Terry Hernon MacDonald, Mon Jan 2nd
A lot of women want to know how to get a man to commit. Even though we know better, we still believe (consciously orsubconsciously) that our purpose in life is to get a man to forkover a two-carat diamond and a house in the suburbs. At the dawnof 2006, this is still perceived as the pinnacle of success forwomen. As a result, too many of us stay in relationships that don'tmake us happy. We tell ourselves that if we say the right thing,do the right thing, buy the right thing, we can get some guy tomarry us and validate us in the eyes of our friends, ourparents, and society.
We play games with our sexuality. We submit to unnecessarysurgeries and wear clothing that make us candidates forpneumonia, all in an effort to hook a man. We have sex notbecause it's what we want, but because we want to keep a guy'sinterest. We stop having sex when he doesn't come forth with aring because, as our mothers told us, "Why buy the cow when themilk's free?" And, in the end, it usually doesn't work. We don't get thecommitment. We wonder why, deep down inside, we are ultimatelyunlovable. The reason for it is simple. We don't love ourselves. Heck, wedon't even own ourselves. We dress, act, speak, and have sex toplease (or manipulate) others. The fact that, at the tail end of2005, we still use expressions like, "Why buy the cow when themilk's free," is astonishing. You are not a cow. You are a woman. You will attract a man whowill gladly,
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Posted By: travwilbury
Post Time: 11-21-2008 at 09:27 PM
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Posted By: grymoire
Post Time: 11-20-2008 at 05:41 PM
Wife of 12 years has asked for Divorce
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Posted By: E III
Post Time: 11-20-2008 at 11:57 AM
unknown reasons for being uncivil ?
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Posted By: jhat111
Post Time: 11-20-2008 at 10:33 AM
Really Need Advice - Is it really over?
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Posted By: rashe30
Post Time: 11-18-2008 at 08:26 PM
Now what? He wants my family too?
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Posted By: livinginsbi
Post Time: 11-16-2008 at 11:50 AM
Got served the divorce papers today
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Posted By: lostandhurt
Post Time: 11-13-2008 at 11:23 PM
eagerly commit to you when you start believing thatyou have a bigger purpose in life than getting married. This means you: Dress for yourself, not for someone else. Stop postponing doing things you want to do because youthink you need a guy to do them with (or that you have to "checkwith" your boyfriend first). Stop waiting for some guy to commit to you. If he sayshe's not ready, do yourself a favor and back off. Stop beingtaken for granted. Make plans that don't include him (this willdo one of two things; either he'll realize he can't live withoutyou, or you'll realize he definitely can). Have sex when it's right and because you enjoy it. Don'tuse (or not use) your body to "get" a man. In other words, get a life. Love yourself. Treat yourself as atreasure that has yet to be discovered. There are plenty of tricks you can use to hook a man, but theyusually involve manipulation, deceit, and the loss of yourself.And, while they usually don't work, it's worse when they do.Women who used them tend to be divorced or miserably marriedtoday. So, make a commitment to yourself. Be true to yourself. Valueyourself. You will send a signal to men that you are special,different, and worth their time and effort. One of those men will prove to be worth your time and effort,too.
About the author:Terry Hernon MacDonald is the author of "How to Attract andMarry the Man of Your Dreams." Sign up for free dating tips athttp://www.marrysmart.com . Check out her blog athttp://happygirlmusing.blogspot.com
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