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Can A Marriage Become Stronger By Swinging?
By Julia Tanner, Sat Dec 10th
While rates rise and marriage fall apart on a dailybasis, an outside observer of swinging might think that it helpsto cause marriage crises. This is certainly not the case.Swinging, through numerous individual interviews and casestudies, has been shown to help strong marriages become evenstronger. Strength in numbers? When you talk to an experienced swinger, you will find that theydidn't want to try swinging for the sex, but for the experience.Their marriages may have been plenty strong going into the wholeadventure, but one or both of the partners just wanted a littlesomething different and new. They didn't love each other anyless, but rather, they wanted to add another dimension to theirrelationship. And by making the decision together, they createda way to communicate with each other more openly and honestly,leading to overall better communication skills (outside sexualmatters).
Why swinging isn't cheating One of the main concerns that couples struggle with is theirmindset of thinking that swinging is cheating on their partnerin some way. And this can be a deterrent for a while to act uponthis fantasy. What makes swinging different from cheating isthat the two of you have decided to share this experiencetogether. There's nothing secretive about being with this otherperson. You know exactly what your partner is doing and you'vetalked about why. You're hoping to share this new adventure withyour partner--together. And this is why being
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open will makeswinging even better for the both of you. Saving a weak marriage A counselor is the best way to save a weak marriage, notswinging. If you are having insecurities about yourrelationship, or just aren't communicating as well, swinging isnot a good fix. Swinging is best experienced by a couple that usable to talk to each other and share with each other. And ifproblems should come up in the swinging process, then the couplemust be able to work through them. And weak marriages areusually a sign of not being able to talk through certain issues. Don't complicate your relationship more. Work things out witheach other before you add swinging to the already volatile mix.Swinging can provide just the 'kick' that your strong marriageneeds, but it will not solve problems that are already present.If you're able to work through issues as a couple and just wantto experience more in the area of sex and fantasy, then swingingcould be the answer to your dreams. And there are plenty of places to research swinging. Bookstoresso carry books on swinging and your local sex shops can directyou to local connections. Online swinging dating sites and otherinformation sites can also answer any questions that you mighthave. Start the open and frank discussions now to enjoy swinging inevery way that you can. Doing the research together may alsolead to some fun on your own. About the author:While rates rise and marriage fall apart on a dailybasis, an outside observer of swinging might think that it helpsto cause marriage crises. This is certainly not the case.
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