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10 Steps To Happily Ever After
By Slade Hartwell, Sat Dec 10th
Do you know what all happy and healthy marriages have in common?In every one of them you will find two people committed tomaking each other happy. You will find a man who cherishes hiswife and puts her needs above his own, and you will find a wifewho respects and trusts her man. We live in very selfish times.Pop-psychology messages are everywhere in the media encouragingus to love ourselves, do right by ourselves, and generallyplease ourselves first. If you really want a happy marriage,don’t buy into that type of self-centered thinking. Instead, trythese 10 time-tested techniques and experience the happiness,peace, and tranquility of a healthy marriage. 1. Make time for each other. It’s so easy in our hyper-busymodern lifestyles to forget to set aside a little time to enjoyeach other’s company. Start a weekly tradition of setting a datefor the two of you to be together doing something you bothenjoy. Keep it simple. Take a nice walk together. Sip coffeetogether in a cozy coffeehouse. Talk to each other, reminisce,and get to know each other again. 2. Take time off from each other. Give each other space and timeto work on hobbies and personal interests. When you have aninteresting project to work on, you will feel more fulfilled andyou will be a more interesting person.
3. Make little romantic gestures. Remember to compliment yourspouse. Leave a little love note for them to find once inawhile. Celebrate the day you first met.Send flowers for noparticular reason. You should continuously make little depositsin your spouse’s emotional bank account. The return on yourinvestment will be incredible. 4. Fight fair. Don’t argue in front of other people. Don’tinsult each other or each other’s families. Never threatendivorce, and never go to bed angry. Let the little things go,and don’t make a big deal out of every disagreement. Beforearguing, think; is this really going to matter in the
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long run? 5. Take interest in what interests your spouse. Watch theirfavorite shows with them. Read their favorite book, so you cantalk about it with them. Encourage them to develop their talents. 6. Listen to your spouse. Husbands, remember that women need toexpress their feelings. Be a good sport and just listen. Don’tinterrupt, or get distracted. Empathize with her. Let her knowthat you can relate to what she’s feeling. Ladies, pleaseremember that the kind of talk you might like to have with yourhusband does not come naturally to most men. Just be patient.It’s not a good idea to "unload" on him right when he comes homefrom work. 7. Accept your spouse for who they are. Practice totalacceptance. Don’t hold your spouse to your expectations; youwill only succeed at building resentment. 8. Express your commitment. In little ways, you can, and should,renew your vows to each other over and over. Your spouse willfeel comfortable and secure knowing that you are truly committedto the marriage. True closeness will only happen when all doubtand insecurity is replaced by confidence in the relationship.Let your spouse know that you really are in it "till death do uspart." 9. Trust in each other. Don’t be suspicious. Don’t snoop througheach other’s belongings. To help ensure the trust, be honestwith your spouse in all things. Never keep secrets from eachother, not even little ones. 10. Make it your aim to be your spouse’s best friend. Appreciateyour spouse for who they are. Loosen up and have fun with eachother. If you are practicing the steps above, you are on yourway to being your spouse’s best friend the ultimate relationshipin marriage. About the author:Slade Hartwell, Webmaster at www.ezromantic.com Romance Relationship Resources We offertons of romance and relationship help such as: great articles,advice, love poems, book reviews, gift ideas, romantic travelguides, a relationships forum, and more.
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